Eleanor Smith, wife, step-mother, mother, widow and divorcee

Eleanor B. Smith was born aboiy 1814 in Loudon, New Hampshire, the daughter of Jonathan and Hannah (Sleeper) Smith.  Little is known of her childhood in Loudon.  Her father died in 1832, when she was 18 years old.  The entire family appears to left Loudon for Hallowell, Maine by 1838. Several relatives on the Smith side of the family had previosuly settled in Hallowell, Whether it had been the plan for the family to move to Hallowell or parts of Maine, Eleanor arrived with her mother and siblings at that time.

She married 1) John Buswell, November 3, 1839 in Hallowell, Maine as his second wife.  He was born  February 23, 1812 in Hallowell, Maine, the son of Ebenezer and Abigail (Merrick) Buswell.  He was a distant cousin to Eleanor through her great-grandmother, Mehitable (Buswell) Smith.  John Buswell married 1) Mary Tapley, who died in 1839 and they had 5 children with only three living at the time of his marriage to Eleanor.  They would have 5 more children together.  She was now a step-mother and a mother.

In 1850. John Buzzell, age 38, laborer, with a real estate value of $1600 [$63,000 in 2024], was living in Hallowell, Maine with Eleanor Buzzell, age 36; Clara Buzzell, age 9; Albert Buzzell, age 6; Angeline Buzzell, age 4; Elenaor Buzzell, age 2; Laura Buzzell, age 2/12; Hannah Smith, age 63; Olive Blake age 18; Augustus Taylor, age 22, laborer; Charles Runnells, age 19, laborer (USC, p. 203).

John Buswell drowned on November 28, 1850, leaving her a widow.

                                    Kennebec Journal, issue of December 5, 1850

John had accumulated some debts.  Inventory of his estate was taken February 21, 1851.  Guardians were awarded for the four youngest children (Kennebec County Probate).  The Probate of the estate shows that house was sold at public auction, December 2, 1851.  Kennebec County deeds reveal that Eleanor B. Buswell of Hallowell, administrator of the estate of John Buswell, late of Hallowell, deceased, sold for $200 paid by Hannah Smith [her mother] of Loudon, New Hampshire, widow on December 2, 1851 (Kennebec County Deeds vol. 178, p. 267).  Eleanor also sold for $80 paid by Abigail Smith, wife of her brother, Ezra Smith, a lot of land in Hallowell (ibid. vol. 178, p. 373).

Eleanor married 2) Thomas Paine, February 17, 1852 in Hallowell, Maine.  He was born about 1814, son of Joseph and Love Paine.  Ot is not know if she was really in love or if this was a marriage of coveinence.  She was a widow with 5 children under the age of 10 years and 3 step-children and with selling off property to cover herr husband's and family debts, may not have been enough to live a comfortable wife a widow.  

Eleanor B. Paine petitioned for a divorce from Thomas Paine stating that they were married February 18, 1852, but on June 16, 1852, he deserted her and has lived separately from her for more than 5 years, libel dated July 10, 1857.  In the August 1857 term of Court, the divorce was granted (Kennebec County Supreme Judicial Court, vol. 19, p. 569, docket #1250).  She was now a divorcee.

Eleanor B. Paine also petitioned to have her name changed legally by the Maine Legislature to Eleanor B. Buswell on March 18, 1858 (Maine Genealogist vol. 20, [1998] p. 89).

Eleanor died March 13, 1860 in Hallowell, Maine.  The 1860 mortality schedule gives that she died in March 1860 at age 46yrs of consumption.

John and Eleanor are buried in the Village cemetery, Hallowell, Maine.  There are only stones for John Buswell and his daughter Eleanor Buswell in the lot and her mother, Hannah Smith, but burial records show that four people are buried in the lot with Eleanor being there as well.